tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4125165466190100857.post5154680275603856356..comments2022-11-07T01:04:54.414-08:00Comments on My life in a nut shell: A new year older - but none wiserAmandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16700515921385894450noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4125165466190100857.post-74300081234837242462012-08-09T17:32:46.454-07:002012-08-09T17:32:46.454-07:00Happy Birthday! I'm sorry you are dealing with...Happy Birthday! I'm sorry you are dealing with that. I just learned how to stand up to my mom a couple years ago. I don't take her shit anymore and I realize things are her problem not mine and I separate myself from it till she gets it and works it out herself. My besties mom was like that. Threw a huge shower for her sister who got pregnant by accident by a man who abuses her (now on 3rd oops baby)and didn't say a word about throwing one for my bestie who did everything in order. I called her a few times and asked her about it, but never got any call backs so I took it upon myself to throw her one. When I sent the invite to her she got pissed at me that I was throwing one, but still had no intention on doing it. She didn't come, never gave a gift and the party was awesome. My bestie was so upset when she thought her mom wasn't throwing her a shower. I was so happy that only a week later I surprised her.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4125165466190100857.post-79050220347020396422012-08-08T14:53:12.991-07:002012-08-08T14:53:12.991-07:00I mean 28 weeks. :)I mean 28 weeks. :)Laniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03494973592822062878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4125165466190100857.post-34922198060027304802012-08-08T14:52:31.420-07:002012-08-08T14:52:31.420-07:00Beautiful baby Amanda! Just a gorgeous face! :)
I...Beautiful baby Amanda! Just a gorgeous face! :)<br /><br />Im sorry about the trouble with your mom. Try not to let it taint this amazing time celebrating the baby. I dont think parents should mind f#@$ their kids and manipulate their emotions. Its sad that her love for you is conditional on you putting forth tthe effort. It ia her loss if she wont show up to the shower! Youre 18 weeks for godsake when was she planning on throwing you a shower? Shes being childish just as you said.Laniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03494973592822062878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4125165466190100857.post-13708172740206736052012-08-08T13:28:41.669-07:002012-08-08T13:28:41.669-07:00Ugh. This is a hard one. Logically you know what&#...Ugh. This is a hard one. Logically you know what's going on, but it still stings. Because your mom is your mom. Hence the reason we hope that things will be different.<br /><br />Give yourself a couple of days before you respond to this. The shock from being hit once again is going to take a little bit to recover from. Once you do, though, I'm sure you'll know how to respond. <br /><br />In the meantime, remember that this really doesn't have anything to do with you. As much as we would love to change our mothers, it's a matter of simply trying to live with them with as little fallout as possible.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.com